Dear Harriette: My sister won the answer to my calls or call me, and I have no idea what I did wrong.
She never has an excellent leg to communicate, but now she has been silent.
At first, I thought I was busy, but now it is a leg, and I’m starting to worry about something really wrong. I have tried to send you text messages, leave voice messages and even arrive through social networks, but I have not had any response.
Unfortunately, she lives throughout the country of me, so I can’t visit her home.
I called my parents to see if they are in contact with them, and they say he has done it.
I do not want to press too much and make things worse, but at the same time, I don’t want to sit and let our relationship fade.
Should I give space and wait for it to come, or should try to get to the bottom of what is happening? I love my sister and I don’t want to lose our connection, but I’m not sure what to do next.
– Brothers abyss
Dear Brother Abyss: Clearly, your sister does not want to talk to you. Whatever your reasons, you will not discover right now. You have no choice but to wait.
You can write a letter to tell her that you are strange and worry that you have cut the communication with you. Excuse me for whatever you said or made to disconnect from you. Ask him to communicate when ready.
Dear Harriette: I am basketball coach, and I have two players in my team that seems that they can’t get along.
No matter what they do, they are constantly discussed, and is beginning to affect not only its performance but the dynamics of the entire team.
I have already tried to sit down to speak, with the hope that they can find common land, but I have not seen much difference. Both are talented players, and I know that I care about the game, but their inability to work together is becoming a real problem.
I do not want this tension to demolish the morale of the rest of the team, but I also do not want to choose the bides or handle this unfairly.
What is the best way to foster teamwork and resolve conflicts between players who simply do not see sight? Should his parents involve, or that would make things worse?
– Disagree
Loved in disagreement: If you have a deep enough bank that you can do without these players for a moment, replace them with ethers and tell them that they cannot return unless you discover how to deepen better.
Yes, talk to their parents to inform them about bad behavior and ask if something is happening in the lives of their children that would lead to the agitation he is witnessing. Ask parents to support their children talking to them and helping to reach the reason for this behavior. You can also work with the school advisor in an intervention.
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