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Little known fact: I started my career as an event planner for a catering company. In fact, it was the perfect first job for me, combining my passions for food, design and bringing people together. (Disadvantages included crazy hours and very stressful clients, but it was a good experience for me, who is 22.)
Even though I’ve been out of the event planning business for a while, I still love throwing a party. But instead of the champagne towers and elaborate dessert bars of my past life, today my ideal type of gathering is a casual, shoe-off gathering, preferably outdoors in the sun. After all, everything tastes better outdoors!
That said, anyone who’s ever invited people over for a casual patio dinner knows: an outdoor party comes with its own challenges. The scorching sun, pesky mosquitoes, keeping food warm (and keeping flies away) are details that can make or break the festivities. My catering experience, combined with the countless parties I’ve hosted over the years, has taught me some invaluable lessons that I employ to make my own gatherings feel (almost) effortless.
So today we’re putting together the most frequently asked questions I get about hosting a summer party. I hope you’re inspired to find the next open afternoon on your calendar (yes, weekdays work too!), send some texts to some friends, and grab some snacks to make a simple, delicious meal.
Read on for some of my tried-and-true secrets, menus, inspiration, and planning tips you need to organize in style all season long.
All your fun summer questions, answered
Q: What’s the best way to invite people to a casual summer party?
A: Three words: keep it cool. An invitation sets the tone, so for a simple outdoor party, don’t overthink it! In my opinion, a text message or group email is the way to go. And I’ve found that when I make things really easy for myself, I’m naturally inclined to invite friends over more often. In addition to arrival time, I like to let people know the approximate time we’ll be eating so we don’t fire up the grill multiple times over the course of an evening (i.e. “come for swimming at 4, burgers at 6!”).
It’s also helpful to provide a casual dress code so people know what to expect. Swimwear? Bermuda? Summer dresses? Since summer parties can have drastically different outfit expectations, everyone will appreciate a few clues about what to wear.
A: I have a few strategies for keeping the menu simple; Which one you choose will depend on the type of party and who will be attending. Here are some ideas to get you started:
Dinner appetizers. Summer is the perfect time to prepare a delicious variety of store-bought staples with some artisanal treats. Prepare a snack board filled with delicious cheeses, olives, crudités, sauces, dried fruits and nuts; Truly, your options are endless. Green Goddess Dressing is downright addictive and the perfect accompaniment to any type of seasonal vegetable.
Semi-homemade party. The goal is to relax and hang out with your guests, so no matter how experienced a party planner you are, it’s great to have a few tricks up your sleeve. To save a lot of time, try a “semi-homemade” approach. Buy the main dish from a favorite place (like a rotisserie chicken from the deli or bagels from your favorite bakery) and fill it with sides and homemade salads that can be prepared in advance and will make you feel like you cooked it all.
Throw it on the grill. Rule #1 when planning a menu: You don’t want to include anything that will make you prepare food like a short-order cook when guests are over. Where is the grill? In fact It comes very well. I like to have my proteins already marinated or seasoned before guests arrive so that all that’s left to do is throw them on the grill. I often roast veggie sides as well to make things really easy for me and keep cleanup to a minimum!
Q: How can you speed up grill cleaning?
A: Grilling is one of the most low-maintenance ways to cook for a group, with a little know-how. Here are my time-saving grill cleaning tips:
- Grease grill grates: Before grilling, grease the bones to prevent food from sticking. Use a brush or paper towel dipped in oil.
- Pre-cleaning the grill: While the grill heats, use a grill brush to scrape off any residue from previous cooking sessions.
- Marinate in Bags: Marinate meat and vegetables in resealable plastic bags. This reduces the number of dishes you need to clean. I then use tongs to transfer them directly from the bag to the grill, so the only dish that really gets used is what it’s served on.
- Clean while hot: After cooking, while the grill is still warm (but not hot), use a brush to remove any food debris.
Q: What should I serve to drink that won’t leave me filling glasses all night?
A: I sound like a broken record, but the key is to keep it as simple as possible – less time spent bartending means more time drinking cocktails yourself! For almost any summer occasion, you can have 3 drinks and call it a day:
A fun batch cocktail. Sangria, margaritas, punch: Premix a large pitcher and then let guests help themselves. Any favorite pitcher drinks? This Mezcal Paloma and this Strawberry Rosé Sangria are as summery as they come. Aperol Spritz is a summer cocktail loved by all, perfect for an Italian menu. Or try a Blood Orange Margarita for a delicious twist on a classic.
A rosé wine or a white wine. This is perfect for guests to contribute when asking what they can bring to the party.
Flavored infused water. Fill a large pitcher with water and add fruit or herbs for a festive touch. Bonus points for offering a fun non-alcoholic option, like sparkling lemonade or iced tea.
A good rule of thumb is to plan for 1 1/2 drinks per person per hour. And at an outdoor summer party, always Have more water and ice than you think you will need.
Q: What happens if it is too hot on the day of my party?
A: Again, have a lot more water on hand than you think you’ll need! And sunscreen is non-negotiable. Do your guests a favor and have some sunscreen on hand so they can reapply it as needed (check out our favorite cleaning options). I love the look of outdoor umbrellas and usually scatter 2 or 3 around a party space for life-saving shade.
Q: What are some good outdoor activities to keep the vibes high?
A: Enjoy the carefree atmosphere of summer and plan some classic party games and activities to make your gathering unforgettable. Some of my favorites:
- Yard games like bocce ball, croquet, and cornhole are great for encouraging people to let loose and have a good time together.
- Music is crucial to the atmosphere, so don’t leave it to chance. My favorite for hanging out and dining is Casa Zuma’s Daybreak playlist. And you can always turn up the pace as the night goes on and see if an impromptu dance party breaks out.
Q: How can I stop making small talk and have interesting conversations?
A: You’re speaking my love language: good conversation is the key to any meeting! We put together a list of conversation starters to inspire thoughtful and engaging conversations. Keep a few of these in your back pocket and you’ll engage in every interaction with confidence (and curiosity!). And I guarantee the party will never get boring.
Hosting is a practice, and gathering with loved ones is an opportunity to savor the sweetness of the season. After all, we only have so many summers in our lives, and it’s worth squeezing all the joy out of them. So light the candles, chill some bottles of wine, and let the season do what it does best: bring people together.
This post was last updated on June 12, 2026 to include new insights..
