She is not doing tantrums in the target or sucking her thumb, but an adult woman, letting her husband try her as a 2 -year -old girl has saved her relationship … and her sanity.
“Emma’s baby likes to get attention and likes to be spoiled,” Emma Singer wrote in a recently Pure foam rehearsal That is to raise some eyebrows and, to your surprise, win the approach or your therapist.
The singer, a 36 -year -old mother who swore love after a difficult relationship with her ex, says she was emotionally closed until her now husband, whom they give “S”, nailed her hardened shell with what can only be described as Psychology preschool.
“My inner son is dead,” he joked once. Except she was joking. I knew it, and was determined to resurrect her.
And, therefore, the baby Emma was reborn.
“Baby Emma (also known as me) is eternally 2.5 years old,” he explained, pointing out the importance of age, is when he lost his mother.
“Emma’s baby likes to push people when they want more attention and she He likes to be spoiled. She has a conceited smile when she goes out with her and grows and snorts when she does not. “
And no, this is not something NSFW Bedroom Fantasy. “I’m not talking about A little twist“She wrote.
“When it comes to my sex life, I am a 36 -year -old woman in my own eyes and my partner’s eyes, thank you very much.”
Even so, the baby’s talk is More than just play. It is therapeutic.
“Am Be nourished. My needs get first how the needs of a child should be … And that is not something that I have really experienced in my childhood, much less in any romantic relationship, “Singer shared.
Yes, that includes small style advantages.
“If twin when the children wake up before the usual, S tells me to get up in their place because” of all two and a half years they need more sleeping anyway “anyway.” When I get up to wash the dishes, s surrenders me and says “Don’t be silly, you are too short to reach the sink.” “
The parents’ style association may sound strange, but the singer says he has brought joy, peace and “real fun” in his life.
“Happy people in happy relationships have current Funny together, and that can be seen very or different ways, “he wrote.
“It turns out that I am not always so funny, but the baby Emma is a riot.”
Only a therapist or 18 years is on board.
“Who cares? If it works, do not change it,” said Dr. Gibbs A. Williams, a licensed psychoanalyst, when it’s crushed everything was strange.
It turns out that there is a name for this psychological failure brand: Psychodrama: a real therapeutic technique in what people Act in past traumas or dissatisfied he needs to heal.
The singer’s husband nailed him without even knowing the term.
“What you and S are doing, it seems to me, it is very playful,” said Dr. Williams.
“As a therapeutic idea, we call it a constructive game … It makes a lot of sense to me that by participating in the game of this type with their partner, both are building some constructive effects.”
It also pointed out another great psychological term: “regression to the service of the ego”, a kind of healthy emotional rewind that can offer healing, not damage.
“This type of regression could really be a golden opportunity to solve a key problem that would have lost the bone,” said Dr. Williams.
For Singer, everything is reduced to this: “undergoing a previous state and letting your inner child be part of its day to day (in reference or course) could be the son of therapy that I never knew that he needed.”
You just don’t forget the nap time. “Now, if you apologize,” he joked, “Baby Emma needs to take a nap.”
